No, I don't have a man in my life other than Séamus. No, my new passion is car seat safety. It has been slow growing, but I think I might be borderline obssessed. I still can't believe how uninformed I was prior to my accident last July, and this after doing some research on seats. I wish everyone could have the ladies at the Car Safety Board of babycenter at their disposal. My little man will be rear facing in his seat until he is either to tall (likely) or to heavy (not so much since he is only about 24-25 pounds). He will be in a harnessed seat until he is 6 or 7, and then in a really good booster.